Friday, July 24, 2009

What a great decision!!!!!









Yeah, I think mum has made a great decision of entering the hospital. She 'll be entering the hospital on 3/8/09 after Ah Leong departing to Jakarta, Indonesia to work.

As the saying goes, ' A man's meat is another man's poison'. That means that there are good things and bad things over a matter. In this case, mum'll be getting a medical care for her leg and it'll be wonderful if she can stay there until her leg is recovered. Then, mum can go anywhere she wants and do whatever she wants----freedom. haha

On the other hand, I'll need to be more independent by managing my time and work well. I'll hv to wash my clothes, buy or cook my food(breakfast,lunch and dinner), wash dishes, pay bills and so on. Moreover, outside food is not healthy and expensive too. Furthermore, I hv to come home earlier during the weekends when I going out with friends as father told me that he doesn't want to be alone at home. Perhaps he doesn't like to stay with aunt gua. Haha. Anyway, I'll cope with it well.

In addition, I really hope Ah Leong'll come home as earlier as possible so that I'll hv car to use.Yeah!!! But he is only coming back on 31/7/09. haiz.

Last but not least, 'koko' is being chased by Ah Long liao. But the Ah Long is very kind to him bcz the Ah Long is his father. Hahaha... father always asks him to pay for the bank debt. Perhaps he has a great pressure on managing his business(studio & event organising), marriage and his debt. Besides, he has a tyroid gland disease so he has to take care of him well. May God bless him and he has got a great helper that is Yi Shan jie jie. Haha. Anyway, I would like to say that I don't know whether he has done his very best or not. He has taken most of the money from home to start his business and he has caused lots of sorrow to our family. He was a wise man university graduate and actually should plan how to use the money to improve our family life, do some investment so that we can hv a better life. He mustn't always think hor himself. He must think for family too like what mum and dad did to him too. They hv been worried and preparing for his wedding since he said he wants to get married Everyone in this world should contribute and make a living for his/her family.

To confess, I would like to say a few words on what I think. When I was working, I met lots of different people. My coallegues are around my age 18,19 and 20. They hv got a car, nice clothes and beautiful hairstyle. Some of them always go to pub to have fun. I was wondering I have been putting a lot of effort to my study, life and learn what it takes to be a more wholesome man. But what I can see is they can have a better materialistic life than me. In this world, it depends on what kind of people u r working with. If i was working when mixing with that kind of people,I found that I slowly lost my self value and i became frustated and i'll need to find the way to work and mix with them. hais. Then I came back to student's life again to study. Nowadays a degree doesn't ensure u'll hv a bright future. It's a sad thing. So I can't wait to go out to work now so that i can hv a better life. Smtimes i'll blame on my life as I can see the very much different between my friends' lives and my life and I am very frustated. I always ask myself I hv worked much harder than them and do better than them and yet I am living a difficult life than them. I actually don't need any big house or sport car. I just hope that four of us'll unite to play our roles well on taking a good care of the family and helping each other.



I have some mother's day pictures to show u all. Haha. Hey. I am the one who bought the cake and flower for mum. Dun forget. Hahaha

Take care
Best regards
Ah Chun









1 comment:

  1. Chun,

    In our life there are lots of decisions to make...
    We wouldn't know our future... But we can work for it...
    Now not means the future is...

    I always tell myself that what i'm doing now is working for my future...
    I am working 24 hours daily 7 days a week... But my future is relax 24 hours daily 7 days a week...

    If you want to have a good life you have to work for it...

    Last time when i was doing sound & light, my salary is only RM1100 a month... Dad always scold me as I am a degree holder i have to work in the office to have RM 3000++ a month...

    But I know what i want... for a 2 years of hard working, i got my first business -- studio...
    I work hard for it although is the same problem happened -- scold by father... I have my 2 business - Party Gadget...

    Now I am still scolding by father... but i work for my future to have a good life for our family...

    For you Chun, I am not buying new cloth for 2 years already even Chinese New Year... But thats now the problem...

    What you think is good just go for it...

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